Life Is What You Make of It

The power to succeed or fail will always be yours alone.

You alone have the responsibility to shape your life.

Nothing and no one can deny you greatness once you understand this.
There's no one to stop you but yourself.

No one can cheat you out of ultimate success but you.

More powerful than all the success slogans ever writtenis the realization that everyone has but one boss.

That boss is you.
Picture yourself vividly as winning,

and that alone will contribute immeasurably to your success.

One wish.......

There always lies a desire
to pen something fair but what to ink,
I always think.
Having seen the birds that fly
without any fear in the serene sky
the beauty of the flower in the morning shower
The dawn that possess the darkness of night
and the shining of the day
the dusk that brushes the blue-white clouds
with a palette of colours
the waves that rouses as if they kiss
the sky the dancing waters from the hills
the melodious tunes of the nightingale
the lull of a mother telling her child a fairy tale
the calf drinking the love of cow as milk
the lad sleeping in peace in mother's lap
the blood of men in uniform the bindi of women in many a form
the dressing of tongue in red by supari
the beauty of hands decorated by mehandi
the poems full of lyrical values
the music filled with melodious tunes
the beauty of girl that dances so smart
the history of India that is rich in all kinds of art
rouses in me a desire, to pen something fair
but what to ink? I always think.

"Half of our mistakes in life arise from feeling
where we ought to think ,
and thinking where we ought to feel".

SECRET OF EVERYDAY WELLBEING.....

Someone once said the secret of happiness is having someone to love, something to do and something to look forward to. There's probably some truth in this, although it doesn't mean you have to have an adoring spouse or partner, a high-powered job and a world cruise coming up to enjoy life.

The 'someone to love' could be a friend, relative or pet, and the 'something to do' and 'something to look forward to' could be just about anything you enjoy.

But even if you have those three 'somethings', there may be times when you don't feel very happy. Our mood can be affected by all sorts of things, including lifestyle, past experiences and genetic factors.

Scientists think that people who always seem to be in a good mood may simply have naturally higher levels of certain substances - endorphins (types of hormone) and the neurotransmitters dopamine and serotonin.

These are released by the brain and make us feel good when we're enjoying ourselves or when something pleasant happens.

Our state of mind is only partly influenced by the past or by physical factors. The rest is down to us - the way we think about things and how we manage different aspects of our lives. Most of us have much more influence over our feelings than we may think.

We can't always avoid negative thoughts, but one of the secrets of mental balance is being able to notice when you're 'choosing' or 'allowing yourself' to think negatively rather than positively, and keeping an eye on the way your lifestyle affects your mood.

But our job is to get over with negative feelings, no matter whatso ever happens.

Cheer up!!

"To reach a port we must sail,
sometimes with the wind
and sometimes against it.
But we must not drift or lie at anchor."